Evelyn Young

1. Embrace Failure as Learning

Failure isn't a verdict; it's an opportunity.

In Carol Dweck's words, it's

"getting smarter, growing, developing your qualities and improving yourself".

Consider each stumble as a stepping stone towards self-improvement.

For example, if your business project didn't go as planned, view it as a learning curve, not an endpoint.

2. Appreciate the Blossoming of Potential

Patience is a virtue when it comes to personal growth. As Dweck reminds us

"It takes time for potential to flower".

A single failure or success does not cement your fate. Remember, a seed doesn't sprout overnight. It takes time, nurturing, and patience.

3. Cultivate a Love for Learning

Seek joy in the journey, not just the destination. When faced with a challenge, remember Dweck's encouraging words, "You can't do it yet."

Adopting a growth mindset means relishing the learning process, whether mastering a new language or a complex concept in quantum physics.

4. Redefine the Concept of Smart

Being smart is not an 'either-or' situation.

Dweck vehemently disagrees with binary thinking that posits "you're smart or not smart."

Your intelligence is not a fixed entity; it's capable of growth and evolution.

5. Defy Limitations

Don't let others define your capabilities. You have every right to be where your heart desires.

If someone doubts your abilities, recall Dweck's empowering mantra, "You belong where you want to."

6. Embrace Growth Over Validation

Why remain stagnant when you can progress? Dweck asks

"Why waste your time proving over and over how great you are, when you could be getting better?".

Relish the thrill of being stretched beyond your comfort zone.

7. The Power of Perseverance

Perseverance is the key to self-transformation. Dweck's belief that "everyone is capable of growth" is a testament to the power of human potential.

You can learn anything, like coding or cooking if you're determined enough.

8. Embrace Teamwork and Learning

Avoid obsessing over your brilliance or superiority. Embrace humility and be open to learning from others.

Dweck promotes utilizing teamwork to expand your horizons and improve your skills.

9. Profit from Criticism

Criticism is a growth ladder, not a pitfall. Remember, criticism is not a judgment of your worth; it's a tool for development.

Embrace feedback gracefully and utilize it to become a better version of yourself.

10. Celebrate Effort Over Outcome

Dweck invites us to enjoy the journey regardless of the outcome. Take pride in the effort you invest in any task.

If you've trained hard for a marathon, participating is a victory, irrespective of the result.

11. Rise to Challenges

Face challenges with gusto without being discouraged by the effort required.

Learn from failures, and use them as stepping stones to success.

Each setback is an opportunity to learn and grow.

12. Exhibit Strength of Character

Success is not defined solely by victories but by striving for excellence, learning, and growing.

Dweck defines 'strength of character' as finding motivation and information in failure, turning setbacks into comebacks.

13. Seize Control and Strive for Improvement

Take the reins and invest your efforts in continuous improvement.

Dweck's philosophy encourages us to make mistakes during the learning process.

Whether playing a new instrument or starting a business, embrace each mistake as a lesson in disguise.